How to Find Your Purpose in Life

The simplified version for Finding Your Purpose, which I often share with youth or young adults, is below. The more complex version of this model, with 4 overlapping circles, is below this one and separates out the 2 concepts in the green circle.

Below is my more complex version of Finding Your Purpose Venn diagram. I recently learned that my model is based on the Japanese model of Ikigai. which I have learned it called Ikigai, is below it. “Ikigai is a Japanese term that blends two words: “iki” meaning “to live,” and “gai” meaning “reason,” which translates to “a reason to live.” It’s a concept that encourages people to discover what truly matters to them and to live a life filled with purpose.”

The biggest different in my model is that I call it Finding Your Purpose (instead of Ikagai) and then I add 4 previously unnamed descriptors for the combinations of 3 of the 4 big circles that include:

  1. Calling – You love it, you are good at it, and it helps the world, but you are not paid for it. For me, this is my blog on higher education.
  2. Potential – You love it, it helps the world, and you are paid for it, but you are not good at it. For me, this is my struggle to navigate small talk and informal chit-chat.
  3. Dedication – You are good at it, it helps the world, and you are paid for it, but you do not love it. For me, this is my strength in assessment.
  4. Passion – You love it, you are good at it, and you get paid for it, but it does not meet a need in the world. For me, this would be if I got paid for my knowledge of sports trivia, my ability to beat-box, or an athletic competition where I won prize money.

The Ikigai version leaves out my 3 out of 4 circle descriptors and replaces the words Purpose with Ikigai, Passion for Play, Vocation for Job, Profession for Career, and Mission for Service.